Working with Chris was a game changer for how I approach food and see my body – it was a lifestyle game changer, really. His style is based on scientific fundamentals, overlaid with how one feels about things – his/her body, as well as what (s)he “feels” like eating. He was crystal clear from the beginning about what (not) to expect, and I appreciated that honesty. For example, he was clear that I would probably some pounds instead of lose in the near future. Not what one wants to hear, but the level of honesty and expectation-setting intrigued me.
From there, Chris acted as almost a body / food counselor. Someone who would instigate conversations I wouldn’t have with anyone: “What do you see when you look in the mirror?… How does this / that food make you feel?..” etc. He prescribed some reflection and soul searching activities that were the right thing for me – and then pushed me through the uncomfortable step of talking about them! On the food front, step 1 was no calorie counting and really listening to what my body needed (a nightmare for someone who has been counting calories every day for 5+ years).
This process was challenging, perhaps most of all because it requires trust of what had been an unknown for me and willingness to work through the journey (adding a few pounds along the way). However, the outcome has been that I have more energy than ever before – and my brain can take on more complex issues at work for a longer time. For the first time (literally, in my life), I can hear what my body wants to eat. The ultimate testimonial of this for me is that I (sometimes!) turn away sweets – not because I’m scared of the calories but – because I authentically don’t feel like them.
For me, I never thought that I’d have a lifestyle not based on: calorie-counting, being at the gym twice per day, and constantly feeling fatigue like I was dragging myself from one activity to the next. Now, I am moving toward the opposite of all those things. I know how to listen to my body – both what it wants to eat and when it needs to rest.
And lastly, my final acceptance of the body I already have has given me the confidence to keep these habits going and feel better in my own skin every day.
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